INSECURITIES

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 Is everything making you wonder if you're good enough? Or makes you feel like you're not good enough? You're always needy for reassurance like a child learning to read. Your walls of confidence keeps crumbling as more seedlings of doubt is been planted in your mind. More and more of self doubt is rocking your boat, aiming to sink and drown you.

You're not beautiful enough, you're not smart enough, you're too fat, too thin, you're not meant to be loved; harmful words thrown at you to make you think less of yourself, to break your self esteem into bits.

Why give in? Struggle as hard as you can till you break free from this chain that holds you, till you're free from the lair of your personal insecurity. It is time for the comparisons to stop, to pull yourself back together.

Don't you know your imperfections are beautiful? You were shaped and blessed by the hands of God. Appearance is not everything, develop your personality, stop the self consciousness and live your life. Stop scarring your own skin, you're a masterpiece of wonders. Write out your demons and tear the paper instead.

Believe in your self. Stop the self doubt. Live and grow.

*©Olaniji Mayowa G. (G'Briell)*

Thanks for reading. XOXO

Note: I didn't write this and there will be a second post on insecurities. Love you😊

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