INSECURITIES 2

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 Insecurity is uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. It is the state of being open to danger or threat; lack of protection.

Do you most times feel overwhelmed by different kind of 'not good enough' or 'i can't make it out of this phase' or ' I'm totally hopeless or helpless' feelings? Do you let people's definition of who you should be, what you should look like, how you should act get to you? Ooh! you've forgotten that you are perfect in all possible realms. 

You've never looked beneath and see how wonderfully made you are but let the psyche-ache of you aren't good enough make you a shadow of yourself. You are dark skinned and you feel being light skinned is the thing and vice versa or you are big and feel being small is the thing. You forget that our body is just a means through which who we really are manifest. You've come to the point where what the world call beauty makes you feel ugly then you result into living in the facade of fake laughter, alcohol, drugs and the likes when all you really have to do is snap out the insecurities and carry those things that bring you down on your shoulders infact on your heads because they make us different, UNIQUE I call it.

You've probably being rejected, abused or failed, this shouldn't make you insecured and live a life that isn't yours but make you stronger. What the world says about us doesn't make us but what we say to/about ourselves. Insecurities play major roles in how high or low we esteem ourselves which in turn contribute to how well we impact our world. How would anyone help the world around them when they lack confidence and don't feel protected but rather being hurt-prone, depressed, cranky, and see the Cumbersome sides to all things.

In likes of the WORLD SUICIDE PREVENTION DAY, Never let your insecurities push you to the point of trying to end your precious, wonderful, blessed, and beautiful life. You've not failed when you get turned down or rejected, neither have you failed when you lose, but you fail when you give up. Suicide is Never the way.

You know I do love you right? Thanks for reading.

XOXO

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